MEDIA KIT FOR GRAPPLING: WHITE MEN’S JOURNEY FROM FRAGILE TO AGILE

BY ANDREW HORNING


TITLE

Grappling
by Andy Horning

MEDIA CONTACT

Giela Thornton
giela.thornton@scribemedia.com

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION — Page 1

White Male Socialization — Page 19

The Cost of Not Grappling — Page 45

The Grappling Hook of Learning — Page 77

The Grappling Hook of Feeling — Page 95

Grappling 101 — Page 101

Grappling in the big three arenas — Page 197

Conclusion — Page 231

Resources — Page 239

About the Author — Page 243



AN EXCERPT FROM THE BOOK

This book teaches you about grappling with the king of perpetrators—the White male persona, especially the White, straight, Christian, cisgender male persona. You’ll understand how you came to be conditioned to play your part—to live out a role that stifles the authentic you. You’ll learn to take on the conditioning that’s been buffeting you your whole life by learning how to grapple with yourself and the world around you. You’ll walk away with a framework to comprehend today’s world, and how to let it change you in ways that support a nimbler you. If businesses can position themselves as innovators, why can’t we—you—consider that pivot, too? Become an innovator in your own life. Doing so will build an internal agility that will serve you handsomely for the rest of your life.

And you’ll be able to leave behind a sanctified, whitewashed emotional landscape. You can stop bleeding out your essence, that cost of staying in White Male character. You’ll learn to embrace your own core instinct, your authenticity, and a self-compassion that allows for mistakes, giving you the full range of your humanity. You’ll learn how to draw lines between your internal world, your relationships, and our society. And to do all this, you’ll also learn to be open to learning. Remember when that used to be fun, an adventure in new discovery?

I want you to leave behind denial, stonewalling, and anger, to instead feel lighter, liberated, and able to respond in a way that acknowledges all of the different colors of the world. Instead of saying “life should be easy,” I want you to acknowledge that life is hard. Instead of focusing on being right, I want you to focus on getting it right.